Are You running The Rat Race without Realizing it?

If you drag yourself to work every morning and do not "seem" to have any enthusiasm in your workplace and your job, perhaps it is time to take a few days off and do some reflection of your life and for your future. What have you achieved so far, are you happy with what you have achieved to day? What do you want to do for yourself and your family? How long do you have to work like this in order that you can achieve your dream?Or have you forgotten your dreams as you are trying to make your end meets? When is the last time you attend your children school activity or bring them out for a simple country side outing? Ask yourself these questions and… Continue reading

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让 您的生活更有意義吧 如果您每天早上上班， “似乎”對工作和你的工作场所提不起勁與热情，也许是时候要休息几天，并思考你的生活和你的未来。 到目前为止你有什么成就，您对你今天的成就感到高兴嗎？ 你到底想为你 和你的家庭做些什麽？ 你到底是否喜欢这项工作，你要做多久才使你可以实现你的梦想？ 你已，或者你正在努力以求日日溫飽而感到满足，進而忘记了你的梦想？ 你最近一次参加你的孩子学校的活动或带他們去一个简单一边郊游是何时？ 问一问自己这些问题和其他许多将真正反映你迄今的生活。许多人生活在你 死我活的竞争中而不自知。 你可能是一个高薪的公司高层行政人員，但你一天工作十二小时甚至更 多。 你几乎見不到你的家人，更不用说参加你孩子的学校和课外的活動。你每天自己給自己压力，有沒完沒了地举行会议，无休止应酬，在路上或乘飞机出差成为你生活 的一 部分，但你过去几年都没有时间带你的家人去度假。 你不断告诉自己， 明年当我完成这个记划和达到目标，我会加薪和高升而将会有更多的自由。每 一年，要么你不是差一点就达到目标，还是似乎有人比你有更好的运气或因为其中有一些人与具有影响力的人融洽相处，使你与机会擦肩而过． 每年你都答应你的家人，明年你将实现你已讲了多年的假期，不是因为你付不起，而是你需要证明给你的公司看你是该职位的最佳人选， 你不想管理高层人员觉得当你的家庭度假计划与公司工作有时间冲突时，你的家庭价值观比你的工作更重要． 如果你有这种思想挑战，您没有意识到你是在做竞鼠远动，“竞鼠远动最大的特点是，即使你赢，你仍然是一个老鼠。＂莉莉汤姆林。 现在休息一段时间吧！企业世界是很现实的，没有人是不可替代的。 如果你还没有觉悟，让我们再说一遍，没有人是不可替代的。每一年有数十万应届毕业生迈入企业世界；　这些毕 业生有更好的学历和技能．他们都很年 轻，富有活力和热情；愿意承担该公司指定的任何工作．他们也可能只需求的你工资的一半，甚至三分一，又和你做同样的工作．你能做什么，他们也能做，不同的 是，他们可能缺乏你的经验，但话又说回来，在当今世 界事情变化如此之快，知识管理和个人进展从不间断，你可能没有注意在短短几年内你的经验可能已经过时。 所以从今天起，每天都要为自己抽几分钟，找一个安静的地方，思考一些你的生活和你得理想。如果您仍想参加竞鼠远动，成为老鼠，很好，没有人会易意。无论如 何这是你的生活方式，你有权选择你喜欢生活的方式。 但是如果你决定，不再成为老鼠而希望退出竞鼠远动，你必须明白，你必须做不同的事情。 爱因斯坦曾经说过，“同样做一遍又一遍同样的事情，并期 着不同的结果是疯狂的！” 我希望你理性地认识到漫無目的地的竞鼠远动赛跑是不会有任何结果的！ 做一些不同的事情以让您的生活更有意義吧!

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Self management Waiting for Our Soul 等一等我的们的心灵 Read this article on the newspaper and have a good thought about it. 在报纸上看到一则文章, 有所感触. "Once a western expedition team explore into the  inner part of Africa. They engage the local native villagers  as  porter and guide, as time was an essence, they have to rush., Even though the villagers  were carrying heavy loads of tens of kilograms of equipments and material, they were still walking like a champion racer. They endure hardship and very persistent. After three days, the expedition team is very well ahead of schedule; every body were very happy. “有一支西方的考察队深入非洲腹地 考察.请了当地部落的土著人做背夫和向导,由于时间 紧,需要赶路.,而这些土著人很吃苦耐,背著几十公斤的装备物资依然建步如飞.一连三天，考察队都很顺利地按计划先进；大家都很开心。 However, on the fourth day morning, the villagers refused to move even an inch even after much persuasion and coercion by the expedition team to  proceed. They just wanted to rest. 可是第四天早上，考察队准备出发的时侯土著人们都在休息… Continue reading

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自我管理 等一等我的们的心灵 在报纸上看到一则文章, 有所感触. “有一支西方的考察队深入非洲腹地 考察. 请了当地部落的土著人做背夫和向导,由于时间 紧, 需要赶路.,而这些土著人很吃苦耐, 背著几十公斤的装备物资依然建步如飞. 一连三天，考察队都很顺利地按计划先进； 大家都很开心。 可是第四天早上，考察队准备出发的时侯， 土著人们都在休息 不走了，好说歹说就是不愿出发。 队员们很奇怪, 这几天大家相处得很好啊，是不小心触犯他们还是要加钱？ 这时，土著人的头领解释道，按照他们的传统，如果连续三天赶路．第四天必须停下来休息一天，以门我门的灵魂赶不上我门的脚步． 启示 我们的生活太 忙碌了，工作和生活的压力让我们日复一日地在赶路。以至 于我们很少停下来思考一下，就不断地被很多东西推著走，或者追逐著，或者追逐著 眼前的 东西而去。而我们的灵魂早已落后在我们匆匆赶路的生活的身影后面无影无 踪。 没有了自已， 我们的生活就交给了外物去控制.” 想想 真的须要好好的休息一段日子了，也让自己的心灵也能赶得上。… Continue reading

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"Live your life as though there is great joy to be experienced... an abundance of goodness in each person you come in contact with, and the knowledge that you have enough inner wisdom to answer the mysteries that challenge you." Meladee McCarty Are you always running out of money or worried that you will? Does your salary never seem to stretch far enough? Are you

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This morning, I went to the Chinese Embassy to apply for Visas, when I reach there approaching the counter, one applicant looked at my forms and told me," The old one cannot use any more, see those people over there, they are asked to fill in the new one." He pointed to a table not far away. I have been expecting this situation before I came to the embassy, I realized Continue reading

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On my previous post "The Secret" or Law of Attraction I did mentioned that " You are who you think you are and attracted to the people and thing you constantly think about it!" There is this old story that I heard about Law of Attraction many many years ago, long before "The Law of Attraction" becoming a big SECRET! The story goes like this; Continue reading

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How are you today? If you asked 10 persons you met, more often than not you will receive grouses and complaints than a big smile and gratitude and appreciation for being well and alive today. I came across this blog which share on 8 ways to enjoy life Every Day How often we are so engross in working toward achieving our dream that we tend to forget little things Continue reading | 4 Comments

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Have you heard of the term Occam's Razor? I first heard of this term when reading the book " One Minute Millionaire" by Mark Victor Hansen and Robert Allen. According to "One Minute Millionaire" the term Occam's Razor was first put forth by a 14th century scientist and named after him. The Occam's Razor states that "The Best solution to a problem, is almost always the Simplest Solution!"

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About a month ago, I attended an NLP train the trainer certification program, the master trainer asked all of us to have a self introduction with some of the positive significant moments from birth till present. This had caused quite a tough moment for many of us, not too much on the significant moment of our life but putting them in picture form and then introduce it to the audience. The Continue reading | 1 Comment

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